I'm a 35 years old dude who just met this 25 years old girl. She’s smart, eloquent, classy, funny … she's just great.
So one day as we were talking and for some reason we ended up talking about past GFS and bfs and she said well I wasn't really into having a relationship, I just liked to fuck around. So I had like 7-8 guys that I spent every weekend with, one or two at the time. Then she added up that this is why she had a memoir that included every guy she had been with. So stupidly and curiously I said oh really that's interesting! Should I guess a number but she was like no need I'll tell you it's around fifty something.
Now, I am by no means on any moral high ground to judge but I did and still do feel intimidsted, a bit insecure and appauled. I really like the girl but after I knew that she had been with at least double the number of people I've ever been with in addition to a ton of more sexual experiences than I have – I am being uncomfortable.
I hate how I am feeling towards her, I hate that I am somehow judging her and disliking her, I hate that feeling of being uncomfortable, intimidated and insecure.
Any thoughts or advice?
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