I (22M) have recently started seeing a girl who I really like. We've been on three dates that were really fun, sexy and just lots of good energy. We're a different match but there's chemistry (I think?). I have met many girls in the past, but rarely in the last two years and my longest relationship was only a month. I've gotten so comfortable with myself and my interests that I've forgotten how to invest my energy with romantic partners and now I find myself worrying if she's already losing interest, if this is even progressing, slow replies, busy tonight etc. Now I start getting caught up in all these thoughts and it just stresses me out. I very rarely get stressed and the rush of all these thoughts and feelings becomes draining and now I'm wondering if the energy it's taking to sustain them is worth it at all? How do I know if the feelings are mutual? Or should I just smoke a jahooney, put some music on and chill the fuck out?
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