I (23F) have been in one serious relationship, which lasted for about two years, and it ended about a year ago. I’ve dated a bit since then but nothing serious. Recently I met someone I like more than I ever would have anticipated. My issue is that I’ve noticed that every time they say something nice or affectionate towards me, I bristle and feel kind of panicky. It’s not that I don’t like them (the opposite, really). This used to happen with my ex when we first started dating. I think it was a defense mechanism or me being self-conscious. I’ve explained to my current crush that I like to take things slow, but I’m not sure he’s convinced.
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