Whats up yall. Tell me what you think about this exchange/story. Just curious if I should drop it or keep trying.
So I saw this girl on TikTok and noticed shes my age(22M, 23F), cute, and lives in the same city as me. So I followed her on Instagram. She didnt follow back but her acct is on private so atleast she accepted me. Anyways I genuinely replied to one of her stories a week or so ago and asked what church she goes to bc im new to town and was looking for one(her story was something about church). This was an honest DM, I had no intentions of meeting her at this point and we went back and forth a few messages talking about her church. Anyways 2 weeks pass and she posts alot in that time and I kinda really like her vibe from her posts so I gain more interest. Then I DM her Saying essentially "Hey X, Is your church open or still doing online sermons? I was looking online so I could go this week but dont see times? " this message was 2 fold. I was genuinely curious but also did want to see if shed bite and invite me to go with her and her friends or whatever. She replied that its just online for now, and i made a joke and wrapped up the conversation. Now, a few days later, she posted a song on her story, which Is the same type of music that I listen to so I replied to it saying "yo I really like this song, this is the kind of music I listen to, heres X and X other song you may like that are similar, let me know what you think!" she replied "I wil! thanks!"
That last message was last night but she never replied what she thinks. Somethings to note are that while she doesnt follow me back, she does reply quickly and with smiley faces and not short replies. I know that sounds childish but her replies do make me think shes interested, although she may just be nice.
Yes before yall roast me I havent actually hit on her yet so I know that she may just be confused as to what I want from her. heres my game plan if yall think I should continue.
reply tommorow to her(2 days after the "ill let you know") and say jokingly "wow, I knew they were good songs but I didnt know theyd leave you speechless"
then when she replies say something like, "yea, it seems like we have a bit in common, and Id love to get to know you, do you want to grab a coffee this week?"
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