So I am a weirdo just looking to see if anyone has similar experiences insite maybe on getting over the pattern I have. I would rather meet up and text occasionally. I havent had much of long term relationships live in the middle of no were (feel thats relavant). I feel like attempting this whole game again but so far I hate it haha. So far we chat on a dating app, meet up and then the daily texting I hate it. The repetitive Small talk, morning, lunch and night time. I have tried to explain that I hate it. Are Topical discusion is great and I try to do that but the other gets so repetitive I feel like I have anything good to say so I dont say anything. Then Its like you arent paying enough attention to me, dont care. Last guy literally turned the read receipts on and got mad I dont respond timely to his daily good morning and pictures. I also hate social media and he wanted attention on his snap chat or whatever. I just dont want to talk to anyone that much and have tried to explain that. Working all day I also have lots of familly stuff and hobbies so I dont have alot of down time anyways its just draining. The idea of finding a right person and maybe then itd be cool but otherwise it just feels like to much work.
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