Ok. I’m 24F and I am very overweight. I am clean, styled, and smart and driven with a good personality, but my body has always been an issue for me. I’m working on being healthier, but I am struggling now being newly single (after 3 years with someone who was the same size as me & talked negatively about being fat all the time). I like myself & I am making efforts to be healthier & more active, but when it comes to dating I have always limited myself to men who have the same body type as me because I assume thin/in shape guys will be disgusted by me being interested in them. My friend (24F) who is also overweight says this is ridiculous & I should go after who I’m attracted to, not who I think I have a shot with (in this case, only dating guys who are heavy bc I am afraid of the rejection of others).
So, does body type make someone “out of your league” if you’re fat? If you aren’t overweight, are you disgusted by big people being interested in you?
TL;DR: does body type play a role in whether someone is out of your league?
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