Experiencing a breakup teaches you more about relationships than the actual relationship.

I was depressed, with low self esteem and instead of focusing on myself, and taking steps to improve my overall happiness, I invested what little motivation I had into my partner.

When the relationship ended, I felt as if I had nothing left, it felt as if my world was finally ending. Suddenly I was determined to get my ex back, and the irony of it all, is that it simply involved me having to take better care of myself. Working out, taking vitamins, spending time with friends, generally having fun, and pretending to be happy, even when everything seemed depressing. Doing this led me to being legitimately happy.

Long story short, within 30 days of the breakup, my ex came back into my life and I started to take back control of my self esteem and happiness, learned some valuable lessons about self love, and generally look and feel better than I ever have…

life is good.

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