Hi! So, I (22F / Peruvian) was in a long relationship (3 years) with this sweet guy (23 Peruvian). But for the last year I felt really unhappy with him, I didn’t feel like a future with him was possible, he was lazy and I didn’t admire him, so I felt out of love but still tried to make it work, but this year I broke it off cause it wasn’t fair for both of us. It has been a little over 3 months since I ended it and in that time I was practicing german with a friend I met online, he (23) lives in Germany so i wasn’t thinking anything of it, even though I’m planning on moving to Germany. Anyway, we started to get flirty and sweet more each time, started videochatting and talking on the phone super often. And I think I’m definitely falling for him, he has everything I look for in a partner.
The thing is that I feel a little guilty sometimes cause I’ve moved on super fast, should I feel this way? Am I moving on too fast? I feel that’s something I can’t control though… I sometimes think about my ex but not in a romantic way and I don’t miss him at all, I just wonder if he’s doing alright.
Sorry if this is long, I tried making it as short as possible.
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