I always feel insecure in a relationship. My bf and I have been together for a month. He is very nice to me and we are both very happy together. He is kinda clingy and likes sending texts like he misses me and stuff like that and I really like that because it makes me feel im needed and im being loved.
But i am a very insecure person. I'm always scared that he might not like me any more because i said sth wrong or did sth that he doesn't like. For example, I bought a superrr expensive the other day (basically my parents bought for me coz Im in college and don't have that much $), and then i would overthink he would think im spoiled and wasting parents money on luxury bags. Also my first language is not English, so sometimes my English is not that good.. then I would overthink if he would mind my English or whatever…
We just spent 3 whole days together and now I'm back to my own place. We haven't talked a lot today, and i know he has seen my messages but just did not reply me.. maybe he is lazy or busy.. but my insecure ass just makes me overthink the whole time…..I'm trying to hold back this kind of feeling to not make him feel like im such a needy and inseure person but i just can't stop this feeling that I did sth wrong…
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