Hey everyone! I am (21F) writing this because it hurts a lot to think that you are not good enough. I am not going to lie about anything and will just state the facts: I am good looking as in above average, I am smart, I have no attitude problem whatsoever, I don’t play hard to get. When I like someone I can’t stop blabbing about all the good things about them and keep complimenting them when I like it, that is, I am not shy when it comes to expressing such things. I never expect any kind of attention from the other person, even when someone’s rude I just take it, I never COMPLAIN about anything and just wallow alone. I don’t get angry about stuff, just because I think the other person will not understand and will think that I am over-reacting, or the worst, I fear what if the other person doesn’t care enough. I am engaging, I like to talk a lot and I always keep the people around me interested. It’s just whenever I am romantically involved with someone, the other person literally breaks me, and my mind gets clouded with all these insecurities, it’s like over the years with experience I have shredded every ounce of characteristic that could make me unlovable, I have moulded myself into this perfect seeming personality and still I feel NOT GOOD ENOUGH. I always keep asking myself what’s wrong with me? What can I change? The guy I am currently dating is an avoidant type which just makes things worse because I am an anxious type and I am emotionally exhausted, what do I do?
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