I can’t do it. I don’t consider myself to be unattractive (25f), but I’m quite unsexy in personality. And worse, if I’m attracted to someone, my natural instinct is to make it absolutely apparent that I’m NOT interested. I’m stone cold. This isn’t high school, I know you gotta throw the signals out there to get your point made, but how can I do that without looking like booboo the fool when it’s against my nature? The best I can do right now is knock down some shots to loosen up, but I still get cotton mouth for the rest of the date out of sheer nervousness.
I’m quite open sexually/romantically when feelings are already established but I seriously clam up in the courtship phase. What do I do?!
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