Found My Ex On a Dating App

So my ex-girlfriend (19, F) broke up with me (20, M) a little over two months ago before this whole pandemic happened. After we broke up, she instantly found another boyfriend and started flaunting him all over social media. They are still together and she still flaunts him on social media, she seems to like him a lot. This really hurt me and made me feel like absolute shit because I really liked her. But, I slowly have been getting over her by muting her social media and letting time heal the wound.

Anyways, I decided to download some dating apps since I have no one to talk to and can’t really go out and meet new people. But, it has not been going too well. I’ve matched with a decent number of girls, but most of them don’t respond or they’re very boring and dry. I haven’t gotten a new match in the last two weeks and not even ONE girl has liked me in the past two weeks.

The other day, I went on one of these apps and saw my ex-girlfriend on there. My heart literally dropped to the floor… It was very gut-wrenching to see her and to even see her name. As soon as I saw her profile, I instantly deleted my account and deleted the app. I was very upset by this and it completely ruined my day.

Even now, I’m still upset and I’ve been thinking about her a lot more because of it. Though she is still currently with her boyfriend, she has a dating app. And it’s not even some hook-up app like Tinder either, it’s an app geared towards actually finding a real relationship. I’m pretty sure she uses it when she’s bored and thinks it’s funny to use. She uses it to see the dumb stuff guys say to her but I know she has been on a number of dates from using these kind of apps.

I don’t know what to do… I can’t even use a dating app peacefully without seeing my ex-girlfriend who already has a boyfriend that she seems to love. I guess this kind of a rant, but I just don’t know what to do anymore. It’s just very frustrating everything that has happened and now I have to deal with this. Any advice or words of encouragement would be greatly appreciated!