Frustrated and confused

A man [29] I [F30] became friends with 5 years ago is in my life again and I’m falling in love with him. We met on Tinder and he lived a couple hours away due to school. We sexted once in awhile but mostly just had wonderful conversations. We had hung out in person twice. The second time we were drunk and he tried to have sex with me but a friend was sleeping close to us so I said no. I lost touch with him a bit because I got married and had a baby. My husband and I split up about 8mos ago. My friend messaged me on fb about a month after and said he had been keeping up with my life through fb and asked how I was doing. We started talking again daily. He lives 10mins from me now and we hangout often. And text constantly. He took me out for food and drinks a few months ago. Nothing physical happened at all. He’s come over to my place to cook, watch movies, smoke, etc. Recently he stayed the night and we cuddled and slept but no kissing or anything sexual. I’m afraid to make a move because I’m nervous he’s just very comfortable around me and possibly naturally flirty. And I don’t want me telling him that I’m falling for him to ruin our friendship if his intentions are not the same. I don’t mind going this slow but I’d like to know if he even wants to create a relationship with me. I’m so confused ? he hasn’t made any moves that are clear to me. How do I deal with this? I’ve had friends tell me that if a man liked me he would make it obvious enough for me to not be this confused. But maybe he’s taking his time out of respect or because he’s still trying to decide if he wants to date a single mom. ??‍♀️ Any tips?