It’s 7am and I’m crying in bed because I’m coming to terms with the fact that I’ve been ghosted by the first guy I’ve slept with since my big break-up 6 months ago. Actually I’ve been ghosted by the second guy I’ve ever slept with in my life. I was talking to him for a 2 weeks, I finally work up the courage to meet up with him in person and finally I’m feeling safe and ok enough to sleep with someone new after my 11-year relationship falls apart. He seemed genuine, he seemed to care about me, he never let a morning start without saying good morning to me and asking me how I slept, or let a night go by without saying goodnight to me..for 2 weeks.. and then the day after I sleep with him I get a single response to a text and then nothing. It’s been more than a week now. I can’t believe I feel for this bullshit. I have literally never dated as an adult. I met my first boyfriend at 14 and he’s the only one I’ve ever been with, for 11 years. Is this shit something I have to deal with now? How the fuck do I protect myself?
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