Fucking tired of my small scene.

I am alt and my scene is small. I feel like nobody outside the scene wants to date somebody alt. I get I look different and intimidating to approach, but God damn I am just as normal as anyone else out there. I am just more self-expressive. I'm not about to be phony just to find a date, so this is just a rant. That said, i could probably not let my identity consume my dating possibilities. Its frustrating because I feel like I'd date a lot of different types of people, but only one type of person would date me. Thanks for listening