I have this hookup fwb situation going with a guy im kinda into but not into at the same time who is a pretty close friend of mine. I see him quite often irl but we dont hang much since the times never line up and when we do its cause Im the one to ask when i catch him at a good time. I have my feelings kinda shut for him because it doesnt seem like he’s interested at all and dont get me wrong hes the sweetest guy and cares alot for me as a friend. Its kinda confusing cause Ive never been really good at reading the signs but he always seems to like to gawk at other people around me but then again hes allowed too. And thats where the “not really being into him” comes into play. Since he is a close friend of mine im unsure if i want to throw off what is a great friendship dynamic but yet again im worried its one sided. Things seem to be going okay but i dont want to ruin whatevers going on right now but at the same time i do like him. Im also not a pro at the whole fwb thing so where do i draw the line with things like can i hold his hand in public lol seriously tho I just dont wanna wait in his line forever. Do i say something or do i just let it go?
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