I am [24 F] and am so confused when talking to dudes. I’m happy to FaceTime and talk to you (the global pandemic kinda takes away the ability to “coffee chat”), get to know you…and sleep with them after awhile (trust issues). But it seems like any male I match with on any app seems to want nudes like…..30 min into the conversation.
I’ve always been a bit more conservative (and do not believe in putting nude photos on the internet!!!) but am I crazy??? Is this normal??
I originally used tinder when it came out when I was in college and – duh – it was a hookup app.
Questions: 1) Is there anything out there that’s like a real dating site where you can build trust and 99% of the population isn’t only looking for nudes or sex same day? 2) am I being too conservative? By not sharing buses am I ruining my chances? (Sounds silly, I know but it’s an actual intrusive thought) 3) any advice on what to say when someone asks for a nude other than just to not reply?
Thanks 🙂
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