Getting back together after numerous breaks/other hook ups?

My SO (20m) and I (19f) have loved each other since we met three-ish years ago. Being a young girl, I wasn’t sure a relationship with such commitment was right for me all of the time. Like I planned before meeting him, I moved away for my first year of uni and we agreed to separate. The love never went away, which made things complicated and on/off all year. He knows about others that i’ve spelt with, though he still agreed to start again when I moved home (start of quarantine). Now, weeks later, he still can’t let go of the resentment he has for my other relations. He says i’ve broken his heart so many times, but still, here we are. I love him whole heartedly and feel mature enough now to grow into a committed long term relationship.

I’m looking for some advice or insight on getting back together after so much damage has been done to a relationship. There’s been many things that have happened, but we still love each other and dream about the future together. I know I may be naive, but I think of him as a soul mate.

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