Sooo. Really weird situation. A long while ago I was kind of talking to someone, and I think we got really close. Things seemingly got very intense very fast between us. It really did seem like it was something that was going to go somewhere. We had crazy chemistry, we were compatible, she was easy to talk to. Things seemed like they were headed in the right direction. And after some time she kind of gave me the slow fade before inevitably just outright disappearing. We started talking in early September. And it was near the end of November where she faded and by early December she was gone. There were even a few times where I had the vibe check conversation w her and she said everything was fine, nothing to worry about. But clearly that wasn’t the case.
But with that out of the way, I can get to today’s events. She recently appeared online on the dating site we met on. And I did my best to just ignore her, but I’m ashamed to admit that I decided to send the first message to her, not really expecting anything in return tbh. But to my shock she responded, and from there the conversation gradually picked back up. Dare I say it’s almost as if we just picked up where we left off. This happened like 4 days ago, and were still maintaining relatively regular back and forth contact with one another.
And I guess I just don’t know how to feel about this? I always told myself during the past 5-6 months everything’s been radio silent that if given another opportunity I would do things so much differently. I’d manage my expectations, take it for what it is rather than get lost in the fantasies of what could be, and just take things a day at a time. But I’m finding that to be easier said than done considering my feelings for the person. Idk man. Any advice pertaining to this weird situation would be greatly appreciated. And thanks for reading if you’ve come this far.
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