So I've been seeing this guy for nearly a year, when I say seeing, it's casual sex but lately it's become more engaging where we'll talk about a range of topics and hang out before/after sex.
After I left his house two weeks ago, I text him when I got home and he replied the morning after apologising because he fell asleep. I didn't reply because I didn't think it was needed.
So he hasn't text me since then so I reached out a few times with no response. I had enough so I just told him I don't appreciate being ghosted and I was starting to get worried about him but I've realised he just mustn't respect me. He replied pretty much gaslighting me telling me 'you only text me when you want dick' etc. I told him he knows this isn't true, because why would I be worried about him ghosting me if I just wanted dick.
He continues to say that I'm playing the victim and guilt tripping him, that I should be the one reaching out to him, asking how his day's going and things like that. A few months ago we stopped talking for a while because I actually did reach out and he told me he wasn't into that, which was cool but I took a step back hence why we didn't see each other for a few months. He's the one that then came back and reached out to me, leading us to this current situation after re starting our connection.
So to re cap, he ghosted me for two whole weeks without any communication and now I feel like he's gaslighting me into thinking I'm the one who's ghosting him? I honestly don't know what to say/do because when we're physically with each other, shit's cool and care free. But as soon as I leave his house, the communication isn't good. I intentionally didn't reply to that text two weeks ago because like I said, it didn't require a response and I wanted to see if/when he'd reach out, which he didn't.
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