Ghosting is a cowardly way out.

I think i am being slowly ghosted right now and it is a horrible feeling. I have went on 3 dates with this guy and we have had a blast (or at least i did). He used to text me paragraphs but now i’m lucky if i get a three word response. It hurts like hell. I became attached to him by talking to him every single day and facetiming him. If you decide to take an easy way out and stop talking to someone- you are an asshole. Point blank period. I don’t care if you hate them, if the vibe is wrong, if they are not your type. Be a man and let them go gently. Call them, explain to them why it’s not going to work out. You don’t understand how much power you hold over someone who you want to ghost, especially someone who have gotten close to you. You can’t just keep hurting people like that. I have to wholeheartedly believe that karma will get everyone who ever ghosted because otherwise we live in a horribly unjust world. Ghosting is the main reason why being back on the dating scene is a horrible shit show. I’ll call him tomorrow and ask him if he wants nothing to do with me anymore.

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