So long story short, I matched with this girl on Tinder. She was in my country on the passport thing. We hit it off great. Texted everyday for 3 weeks, pictures videos, voice notes. Only thing was no video call because we are both kinda shy for this yet.
Anyways, she said a lot of things to me and I too. We opened up and even though I dated girls before I never had this connection with someone either. Thing is she was very deep in her chats early on and casually put "Love you :*" after week 1. I took it as banter and said the same thing. However the next day we both decided to delete Tinder. But then at some point she did mention "if one day we are in a relationship…" (prolly by day 10).
However, we been chatting for 3 whole weeks and last week we were chatting and I replied to her (although my text had no question) and she saw the texts and never replied.
So, I am now a bit at a loss because after we shared everything and she told me she never met someone like me (she has had a few past boyfriends, I have never had a gf but dated a few).
She said she finds me super sexy, loves everything about me and suddenly I don't know what happened.
To be honest, I think she is just busy but I have tried to figure out what to text her for the past 2 days at several intervals. For some odd reason I see her online.
Now look we are not in a relationship yet, but she told me she wants to visit me after this covid stuff and we should go on a real date. We basically know everything about each other. I don't know if a long distance is possible but she has hinted at it quite a lot based on her initial interaction and I have seriously considered it. But now I'm at a loss.
I really don't know what to text her now because I'm introverted a.f and I suck at this. I really want to just ask her how she has been and if she's okay but I don't know how to phrase it.
I will be sending that text and if she does reply great and if not, I will get my answer(although feel shitty because of all the intimate conversation we had). I think she will but I will gauge her interest from then on and if I don't see much interest I will just be honest with her that I am deciding to not pursue her anymore. There are 3 other girls chatting me up past few weeks as well, but I have been keeping it friendly with them because I am someone who won't date other girls or even ask unless it doesn't work. I won't really have a problem moving on but the issue I have is rn I have kinda caught feels for her and I am in the dark and I would love some help with a good text which I could send her to ask her how she is doing. I can't figure anything besides "hey, how are you?". I need some substance but my brain is basically shit rn.
Thanks lovely people 🙂
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