Let's call her Maria. Super quick context:
She's almost 23, I'm freshly 21. I recently moved here from a neighboring city and live with my oldest sister. She's new in town but from all over.
When she was 17, Maria got into a relationship and eventually married a 41 year old who was physically abusive. She made it obvious that she only dates older men.
This is sort of irrelevant, but she also sometimes takes care of her sick younger brother. She's gone through a whole lot in her life and seems much more mature than me.
We had chemistry though. We made each other belly laugh, I talked her through bad days when management was getting on her nerves, or when she was having problems with the guys she was seeing. My first week there, she was talking about how she didn't have friends in town and I invited her to my sisters art show. She was busy, but was really happy I offered.
This girl is impossible to read. She has such a rude sense of humor and is sort of brash. Usually I can tell when a girl says "you're stupid" and means "you're funny" or whatever. But this girl is fucking brutal sometimes. Always in a light-hearted manner but I can't tell if it's flirtatious or if she's really just being buddy buddy.
On my last day on my way out she said, well this is probably the last time Ill ever see you let's be honest, then she hugged me.
My old chef from that restaurant randomly asked me one day if I had anyone special in my life. I told him no one in particular, and he immediately went "really? Not Maria?".
So to be honest I don't know if I was being obvious with my heart eyes, and that was a "let's not make a big deal about this" goodbye. Or if it was her actually trying to not make a big deal about me leaving. Idk if any of that made sense, but basically my question is, I have her number. Would it be worth it to hit her up?
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