Girl I’ve (M/25) been seeing (F/25) in casual conversation mentioned she wants to have a kid before she turns 30. I’m not sure I’m on board on that but also think that conversation is way too soon to be having.

I (M/25) been seeing a girl (also 25) for a month now. It kind of came up in conversation that she wants to have a kid before she turns 30.

Tbh I'm not 100% on-board with that….but honestly that was definitely not a conversation I thought to be had so early. Like I don't even know 100% yet if I truly LIKE her yet you know? I don't even know how to respond about kids yet

I mean she didn't say it like "we" would she said like she wants to with whoever she may end up with if that does end up being me.

Maybe also just hearing the idea of like having a kid and getting married being a possibly soon thing scares me and throws my anxiety out of whack lol and makes me freak out……i feel like I was literally just a kid myself.

Yet to like think that would be a deal breaker to end things seems silly. Like maybe I get way more comfortable with her and ease up….but like IDK I'm not thinking that far ahead lol.

Should I bring it up again or let it go? Am I just having some casual thing kind of get to my head or is this something to address now.