Okay so I'll add some back story first.
Started seeing a girl at the end of April, we live in uk (partially locked down atm) and both still live at home so the only way we could see eachother was by going on drives together. We've done things like walk the dog, drive to far away tourist places, park up & chill, go shopping ect, but we've also rented apartments and drunk & slept together there 3 times.
Some time in the middle of May things got weird and we stopped speaking, she basically started replying twice a day and never saw me for about 5 days which was weird so I just assumed she wasnt interested and took another girl out and uploaded it to my snap, a few days later she got in touch and asked me to come see her, said she wasnt talking to anyone and just felt a bit stressed, obviously got jealous about the other girl but never held it against me, we saw eachother the next day and felt a lot closer and had the conversation about not seeing/speaking to other people.
A few days later she was supposed to stay in her friends house, she rang me up nearly crying because they'd had an argument and asked me to come pick her up, the reason they'd argued was because her friend invited 2 boys over to sleepover with them and she didnt want to do it because she was seeing me. I felt amazing and gained so much respect for her after that, we stayed over at mine that night had a drink and she told me all sorts of nice things about how she feels about me ect. And said if id asked her to be my girlfriend before wed stopped speaking the first time she'd of said yes.
So the next day I took her home, picked her up a few days later and gave her flowers and asked her to be my girlfriend, she said yes spent the next few days with me then asked me to meet her mum, so I stayed over at hers 2 days ago, met her mum then went up with her had a drink and thought it went so well. The next day though she was really moody with me when we was hungover, wouldnt touch me, hardly spoke to me so I just took the hint and went home.
Messaged her when I got in and she didnt reply till the next morning (today) saying she shouldnt have said yes to being my girlfriend, told me not to take it the wrong way and its not a bad thing and that she still wants to see me and get to that point with me eventually but its just too soon for her. I messaged her back and shes been on her phone since then and not replied, its been a few hours now and she also blanked a call I put through.
Just wondering what people think, shall I just move on now because thats what im feeling, I'm feeling like its 100% over.
Or girls is this like actually a normal thing? Personally I cant understand why you'd want to break up and carry on dating, doesnt make much sense to me.
Also if any girls want to see the message she sent me let me know and I'll pm you?
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