The relationship me and my girlfriend has is wonderful. I told myself, I would never date someone younger than me but I met her on tinder. When we matched we hit it off right away. I was just looking for a hook up but I fell in love with her. Our energy is unmatchable we laugh, can’t keep our hands off each other and enjoy each other’s presence. However, we’ve only dated for 3 months, I don’t ever fall this deep in love. I’ve had 2-3 year relationships and they’ve never made me feel what she makes me feel. We match each other and we tell each other we would marry each other. I could honestly see myself marrying her.. she can too but two days ago she just started crying in our FaceTime call, I asked why? And she said it doesn’t matter that she’s being stupid. The communication we have is great we tell each other when something bothers us and we don’t judge each other’s feelings since I hated opening up she made me comfortable. What she told me killed me. “I’m worried about us being finically stable in the future” That hit me like a ton of breaks.. my girlfriend (20) Majoring in business has high goals. Already interning in a private bank and possibly going to work there has here life a bit more figured out than I do. I’m 23 with one year of community college unsure what I wanna do. I work for a sale phone company making good enough money but nothing to brag about. I felt belittled but I understood it wasn’t wrong, it is always good to think about the future right? So, I signed up for classes again …I just feel like what if she leaves me in the future or what if she doesn’t love me? All of my ex’s who I have never loved like this girl never once told me this… so this is all new but of course a reality check. What should I do? We talked about it and I told her to not feel bad because she felt like a asshole but I can’t help but lose interest because a person who loves you doesn’t say that…? I just really feel insecure and motivated at the same time.
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