Hi all,
Last night my girlfriend(19F) and I (20M) were talking about our sexual desires. I am open to everything she had listed until she mentioned a gangbang/orgy. I told her this is something I’ll never be open to and I don’t feel comfortable with it… I asked her if she would be fine if she never experienced it if we are together for a long time since we have talked about marriage between us and it being our end goal. Monogamy and marriage were my two main points that I made sure we agreed on before we started dating.
Am I in the wrong? Things got a little awkward afterwards and she told me if she never experienced it she would be content with it, so long as we were together. Should I consider being more open to the idea? I have sex and the relationship deeply connected and I think it should only be between partners.
I really don’t want to take that fantasy away from her though, but I can’t imagine what would happen to the relationship. Any advice would be great. Thanks!
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