I get women are the "sexual selector" and all, but as a Bi man I swear to god I get like a ratio of 20:1 men to women liking me. It's absurd. Is there some glaring flaw that these women see in me from a tinder profile I can't see after tons of introspection? I don't know if I'm doing something wrong or if it's just the people in my area or what but holy shit is it frustrating. What's so obnoxious about this to me is the fact that straight/bi women make up damn near half the population of earth and gay/bi men are in the minority, so logically this disparity should be flipped, no?
Don't get me wrong I don't think anyone owes me dates or whatever, it's just frustrating to barely get any matches and then get ghosted by the few who do match.
To give some context I'm a 21 year old guy who's had a boyfriend, and would like to see the other side. It seems impossible, lol. Not trying to throw shade on the other half of the population, just needed to vent a little.
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