Have you guys ever been scared to settle down with someone you are dating? I've always dated for the long term and am teaching myself how to date without expecting such things like marriage and children, but when I'm with someone, I can't help but picture them being in my life for a long time.
I can find attraction in almost anyone so I'm constantly worried that I'm missing out on other experiences even if I want to be with the person I'm seeing. I'm still young (19F) so I don't think I should be settling down anytime soon, but the idea of knowing that I won't be with most of the people I meet is unnerving to me. It's the thought of not wanting to be rejected and not wanting to reject other people.
I think there is freedom in being able to choose who you want to be with but there is also fear of not knowing if what you chose was right.
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