so i (18f) met this guy (18m) on tinder, and we’ve been taking for around a month now. we get along super well. i have some issues when it comes to commitment and trust, and it’s taken time for me to be ok with calling and recently we facetimed. i guess he doesn’t realize that those things were hard for me to do, bc they were. i did them for him, because he kept asking to, and i felt guilty. i don’t think he’s being that appreciative of me getting out of my comfort zone for him.
the thing is, i feel as if he always has to get his way, and when he doesn’t get his way, he becomes sad. i’m not saying that facetiming and calling is wrong, but when i wasn’t ready for it i could feel his energy shift.
i’m worried that this will be an ongoing issue, that he will always become sad when he doesn’t get his way and i’ll just end up giving in. he seems a bit sensitive and i just don’t know how to address it without hurting his feelings.
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