Have some space!

I see that many people today think that entering a relationship means that their life has to completely revolve around their S.O. The want/need to do everything together will eventually become being unhealthy. After ending a very long and treasured relationship, one of the most important things I’ve learned is to have some space when it comes to your partner. Sure it’s fun to spend time with them, but you need to have your own life too. My biggest flaw was not understanding that my previous partner needed his own alone time and I was very dependent on him. Eventually, we finally were able to have a balance between alone time and and quality time but it was too late. So my biggest advice is to have your own hobbies, do your own thing, and remember that your life doesn’t have to always revolve around your S.O. Too much time apart isn’t good either so maybe set aside time on certain days! So just make sure you have time to yourself, your family, your hobbies, friends but don’t forget your significant other either. It’s all about balance. Wishing all the current and future relationships good luck!