He/She/They are out there. Don’t settle for less.

I’m writing this post because I know someone out there may need to hear it (I know I needed to hear it way too much in order to actually believe it).

If you’re with someone who doesn’t value you the way they should, please know that there is someone better out there for you. You don’t need to feel trapped or feel like you can’t do any better if you’re in an unhealthy or just overall unhappy relationship. There is someone out there who will listen to you, who will respect your values, who will challenge you to become a better person, who will accept you for your imperfections, who will actually love you more for your imperfections, who will not get upset at you every time you’re upset with them, who will compliment more than just your appearance, and who will help you carry all of the weight on your shoulders.

Please don’t feel like you have to stay in an unhealthy/unhappy relationship. Once you truly believe you deserve better, you can recognize unhealthy patterns and find a new and beautiful relationship with someone more deserving of you. ❤️