First off, English isn’t my first language so I apologize in advance for any gramatical mistakes I might make.
So I (F/23) have been talking to a guy (late 20s) for the last 2 months and because of the Pandemic, we only had a few dates and we had sex once at my place. I thought we got along pretty well.
Before and right after us having sex, he’d always ask for nudes and he would initiate talking sexually almost everyday, which was fun and exciting because he did say he liked me and how lucky he thought he was to have met me. He’d message me in the morning and night, asking me how my day was and such. I thought it was going well, until recently he rarely messages me and when he does, it’s dry and just different from what it used to be.
So I thought “oh well I guess he used me for sex”, and told him that I no longer want to see him because I don’t wanna be used, and wished him the best. I liked him but I know I don’t deserve to be treated like this.
He replies about half a day later saying he wants a second chance with me and that he still likes me and he thought our “relationship” was going somewhere. He said he doesn’t want me to think he only wants sex with me.
I was confused but decided to give him a second chance. Maybe I was overthinking too much?
It’s been a week since we “got back together” but he still never messages me and I feel like I’m the only one trying to make this work.
I’m very frustrated and stressed. Like I don’t even care if he like me or not at this point. I just want an answer.
What is he thinking? Am I being used just for sex?
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