There is this girl I’ve been chatting constantly to during lockdown (for the past 3 months). We’ve been calling for over 7/8 hours a day and she has shown she is interested, I asked her on a date and she responded with yes, but then later the next day asked to change it to hanging out as it helps her emotionally.
A month later, she was still showing interest but we both agreed to reduce our hours to focus on uni content and one night we both got drunk, and she said she is conflicted (saying it’s emotional – being scared of being with someone due to a terrible past which I know). Since that moment I have been on edge and concerned and told her recently she needs to tell me if she is interested or not, until we meet and spend time together in person and then see if we are both still interested there.
This girl is religious and likes to take a slow approach and seemed a bit annoyed by my request, however, she was fully respectful and agreed (what did surprise me tbf) but I would like your opinion on the chances I’ve annoyed her so much with such a demanding request that she will probably only see me as a friend.
She gives off all the signs of being interested and buys me gifts, she has wanted to meet my friends and family and jokes about me meeting hers. She has met some of my friends but I am worried about her not being interested in that way as she is conflicted. I told her, in the nicest way, that I am worried about spending lots of time with her and not ending up in a relationship – which she knows is the reason I chat to her so much, because I don’t spend as much time with friends and what not.
So, could I get an honest opinion on what you guys think will probably happen? Or ways to calm my nerves haha
Thank you so much in advance 🙂
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