Help with being easily annoyed?

I (24M) have a problem. I get so easily annoyed with things. For example, I’ve been talking to this girl and she is nice, we started this texting game where we ask questions but she literally asks the worst questions, then I get annoyed and won’t respond for a bit because I take my time to think of a thought provoking question and she asks questions that are really just her compliment fishing, which is another thing I hate. That’s just a small example but a lot of things, like small talk or inconveniences, annoy me (I hide it very well because I don’t like to seem like an A Hole). I want to be able to be normal and enjoy normal things. I don’t want to have a future relationship fail because my SO wants compliments and I just get annoyed because they fish so much when I never get any compliments myself, or I want to be able to have small talk without a little bomb going off in my head. I wouldn’t say it’s anger issues but I would like some advice because like I said, I don’t want this to affect future/potential relationships.