Hey Reddit family! So me and this guy have been seeing each other since March (we had sex). At first he seems to be really into me and slowly I started to fall for him. I have openly talked about my feelings about him but he gave me some vague responses. Since last week he doesn’t initiate messages or calls but when I text him he always reply immediately. We still go on dates on the weekend. My gut is telling me he’s not that into me and sees me as an option or maybe uses me for sex. I trusted him so much coz the first time we met up we talked about what we want and both agreed that we are looking for serious relationships. And he said he wouldn’t never want to hurt me. It makes me sad thinking he might be using me for sex. I really hope he’s not like this.
Anyway, this “relationship” is making me so anxious and I know when I need to go to reddit for advice, things aren’t working. But I still enjoy his company. So my question is, from your guys experience , should I talk to him on weekend sharing my feelings and asking if he still likes me and want to see how it goes (but I feel like asking this places me in a vulnerable position). If he says he’s not sure about me, I might cut things off with him. Or, should I take it less seriously and date other people at the mean time hoping he will be more interested in me some day?
Thanks for reading this! Any advice would be appreciated!
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