I’ve (29f) been talking to this guy (27m) for what feels like an eternity through text. We matched on all the dating apps forever ago and have been talking I believe since January/ February. He’s always been very consistent. He’s honest, smart, funny, caring, considerate…. all in all, he seems to have a pretty good head on his shoulders. We have similar views when it comes to dating, life, family, etc and have both been honest with each other when it comes to our intentions. He’ll talk about his dates, I’ll talk about mine. We both think a good romantic relationship should happen naturally and he’s made a few attempts to hangout but now says he’s waiting for me to ask.
My problem is, I’m afraid to hangout with him. He seems to be going on dates pretty frequently (at least more than me) and I feel like if we hangout, I can see myself developing some feelings and getting hurt because he enjoys being single or whatever. I really enjoy talking to him, love getting his snapchats, and don’t want to risk losing all of that. I’ve voiced my concern and he’s told me not to worry about but I’m worrying.
Should I ask him to hangout or continue being pen pals?
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