His response on “I’m on my period”

I had posted about telling him that I’m on my period or not last time and see how that goes.

I’ll put a summary here: I 31F met him 37M on Hinge, and we had four dates so far. First date was at public park, except that we met at each other’s place and it was always dinner-Netflix-sex (overnight). And I got my period, of course, and I thought this would be a good way to see him/ test him what he wants with me. We are not THAT young, I am looking for something serious, he kinda showed something like that on the first date as well but since the second date it has been mostly sexual. Probably cuz we found out that we have a pretty decent sexual compatibility…lol

Anyway, as expected he texted me if I’d like to come over for dinner and a movie on Friday. I told him that I’d like to but it might be disappointing for him. He asked me why it’d be disappointing, so I told him I’m on my period.

Then his response word to word: “Oh no ?” “Well perhaps I will give you a really great full body massage and you can give me a really great blow job? ??”

Well the massage thing is that we just both like it a lot, we both have massage devices at home (he even has a full body massage chair) and regulars at massage parlors -legit ones not some shady ones…lol- He had given me a massage once (which did end up sexual) but it was a legit massage as he used to be a part time massage therapist in college. So that’s that. But it pissed me off that he even “asked” me for a BJ when we are not even in a relationship per se. I would’ve thought about it if he just said come over anyway and had a good time with him anyway, but being asked for it because he’s disappointed for not being able to have sex with me was just disappointing and even annoying.

I replied to him saying that it’s something I would’ve considered if we were a couple and I were gonna spend the night there anyway, but it’s not something he could ask for.

And since then he has been quiet. Did I take it too personal or sensitive? Did I overreact? Or he’s not worth it, I should just delete his number at this point? We had good times so far, sex was nearly mind-blowing every time with him, so it feels like a little bit of loss… :’( not sure how to make it up even if I wanna see him again. But at the same time it STILL pisses me off.