There is always this expectation that as a guy I have to reach out first. This is a struggle for me because online it feels like a popularity contest with nothing feeling genuine.
I don’t really know how to reach out people in general and strangers is even worse. I know who I am and what I want but I don’t know how to stand out. If I’m being honest especially since I’m living in a big city it’s hard to figure out how to decide.
I am clueless in what to do since most profiles are very similar. Matches are annoying because I get some but either (most likely) a) I don’t find them or b) we match and I am stuck at what to do next.
I am very uptight at first but much more relaxed afterwards.
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