I’ve realised that a girl I’ve been chatting with probably isn’t worth pursuing after realising we actually have very different lifestyles and values and I’ve really only been chatting because she seems like a nice person – but not in the sense that I actually want to meet her.
When I message anyone I always end up saying a lot ( too much) so can see why she would definitely be thinking that I’m invested in her.
I’m not a fan of ghosting, but will do it in a situation where I think it that’s going to be less hurtful than providing some half assed excuse “hey I’ve realised I’m not ready for dating at the moment” or us “hey you’re a nice person but I feel like we probably don’t have much chemistry” etc
What would you guys suggest?
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