even if this gets lost, i can vent a little bit, so here we go. a few weeks ago, i downloaded tinder again because i was bored and wanted some social contact. most guys i almost never answered, but there was one person, i really wanted to talk to. we exchanged numbers and after two weeks of texting, he asked me if i wanted to come to his place to cook dinner together. we instantly clicked and it turned out, we had a lot of mutual friends in the past. on the second date, i stayed for the night and things got more serious. since then, we are seeing each other about every 2-3 days and i can‘t stop thinking of him. i‘ve been in an abusive relationship for 3 years and ended that relationship about 9 months ago. i‘ve met two other guys since that breakup, but after a few weeks i lost interest. i‘m just really afraid to open up in front of other people, especially in this context, and i don‘t want to lose the person i‘m dating right now. at the same time, i‘m afraid of him getting too close to me. he already told me that he really liked me and that he thinks i can help him grow as a person, but to me it‘s too good to be true. how can i stop doubting everything? how do i know if he maybe, finally, is the right person?
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