Hello,
At what point is being nice, too nice? I think this is obviously a male issue, trying to determine when a woman is just being nice, which is probably most definitely always maybe the case. Sometimes it's really hard to tell though!
The last woman I was spending a lot of intimate time with, stated she wanted a male friend, that's it she was dead set on having a friend that was a man. I'd catch her smiling and staring at me, which whatever alright she's being nice. I'd ask her to come hang out with some mutual friends and she would say no, like alright she's busy. She'd ask me to come over and watch a movie, like cool I'd think she's bored/lonely I guess. She would mention she wanted to go to an event and I'd ask her to go together and she would say no, and I'd think alright too much like a date. BUT then…
We'd go get a beer at a bar, and then we're laying in bed naked together fooling around (BUT never sex, because maybe that's too nice?), going out dancing and hiking together no one else comes with us, she organzied a birthday party for me others came that time it was cool, got me a christmas present (socks though), a valentine's day card (which we're in our thirties but alright), and then she got pissed when I started dating another woman "Don't tell me about her ever", we ended seeing each other because I continued seeing the other woman.
And I am left thinking like WTF?! Was this woman actually looking for a male friend and just being nice, or did she want a boyfriend without wanting to give out the benefits to said boy.
Any women out there want to chime in, how nice is too nice? and what the heck happened in my situation here from your perspective. I need your advice.
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