How to be confident as a man with a physical disability….it’s hard than you think

I don't know what I'm looking for after posting this. Maybe I'm venting, maybe I'm looking for advice, maybe I'm just looking and wanting someone to be in my shoes for a change. I am 28 years old I was born with a disability. Making friends and finding women who are attracted to me has been very hard. It's hard trying to date when you are born so different and cause chaw the way you are. People are always like find someone with a disability, but let's be real no one wants to date or be in a relationship with someone so different. Not even a person with a disability wants to date someone with a disability, and I know first hand.