Hey, guys. It's my first post here.
I need some opinion and suggestion to overcome my lack of confidence and insecurity in relationship. Well, from teenager I have been struggling of low self-esteem issue. It caused by my eczema that I had since I was 7 and now it left so many scars on my skin. I felt so insecure about it.
Last year, I also diagnosed for anxiety disorder. I felt so terrible of myself.
By looking at my appearance and my mental health condition, I always felt that nobody wanted me. But a month ago, I met this guy. He swiped right on me on Tinder. I felt connect with him and he directly said that we wanted to date me. I tried to turn down on him four times; pointed out all my flaws and insecurity, but still he tried to convince me that he would stay by my side and help me to find myself again.
After his forth attempt, finally I try to open up myself. He’s been so kind to me, but every time he does that, I felt like it’s too good to be true. Also, I felt so insecure all the time and ask for his assurance why do he choose me instead of other woman?
I don’t think my experience is normal. I never been in relationship before. That’s why I am so confused and keep asking, why I feel so insecure and doubting him? Yet, I see other friends who is in relationship seem so cheerful and feel so secure emotionally with their partner.
?11
submitted by /u/azuracaelestis
[link] [comments]
