I’m (24 F) usually that person who doesn’t have sex until I’m in some sort of committed relationship, but lately I’ve just been wanting an f buddy. A guy I dated that I know isn’t boyfriend material is an option. He’s really attractive and I know we have chemistry (we never had sex though). But he doesn’t really go down on girls so he has said which is a big turn off for me. I could try to convince this guy to try going down (he said he’d be willing to try) OR I could just find a new person.
I’m on Bumble but I don’t want to swipe right on guys I actually might want to date bc I don’t have time to date right now. So I can’t just go on a swiping spree bc I’m unwilling to swipe right or left on actual potential bf’s.
More to the story: I really just want a big jacked dude to have fun with bc I’ve never gotten to have sex with one before. The guys I actually see potential with on bumble aren’t necessarily jacked (but they’re smart, have good job, less likely to be a tool). Guy I mentioned before is pretty muscular so that’s a plus.
Tl:dr- don’t have time for meaningful conversations, just want a fuck buddy, how do I do this without swiping on dating apps? Or do I just do the guy I already know?
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