Went out with this girl literally once. Months before that, we’ve been talking through facebook. After finally meeting her personally early this year, I thought she was really cool and all. Unfortunately, she wasn’t replying much after and when I would try to meet up again, it really seemed like she didn’t want to see me again.
I cooled off for some time, and accepted that it’s just not gonna happen. Fast forward, 2 days into lockdown, I found out she’s been talking to another guy and they even have pet names for each other. I thought I was over it, but finding out about the guy absolutely crushed me. After finding out, I even tried talking to her. She then lied about missing me and not being ready to date despite all the stuff I already knew at the time.
I’ve cut all contact since, but every now and then, I still think about her. I’m pretty sure it’s my ego and more of a “Why him and not me?” kind of thing. I’ve been focusing on my own stuff during quarantine. Been working out almost everyday and have established an at home workout routine to replace my gym routine. Other than that, I have my job to keep me busy and I’ve been learning new stuff as well. Just that now and then, she manages to slip into my mind and when it happens, I just lose it.
Any advice you guys can offer? Or even words of encouragement would absolutely help. Thanks!
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