How to make the best out of it?

Hello,

I felt quite lonely so I tried Tinder. Honestly do not like this way of meeting people. It is too dependant of look and I'm not really confident. I was just looking around however I got a match with cute, small redhead. We started to chat and it really works. We have a lot of in common, maily bigger things in life not like favourite meal. I was astounished by her inteligence, opinions and her attitude to life. And the chating is something what I have not experienced in very long time. She sends me "good morning" every day, she asks me how was my day when she goes home from work.

It is just a few days, less than week but I'm not letting this go and I'm asking her out because I want something more and I know it does not have to happen but I have to try.

However I found out she is really into sport. I like it, I have thing for this type of girls but she plays volleyball. A lot, she plays in our highest national volleyball league and she studies medicine in university of defence so she is officer in army too.

I used to do a lot of sports, she knows it and I even tell her I quit, did nothing for some time but I had some serious family and other problems and I was ill and lost a lot of weight (for me height). I was always quite slim and athletic but I recovered just very short time ago and I work out (I even have personal trainer to get back into shape) but I'm not slim right now, I'm really thin and I know it. She cant know from my picture and she did not ask yet. She did not had the request for height (as some girls do). And I really do not want to tell her out of nothing that my life was such a shit that I look so bad now.

However if she asks I will tell her but if she does not? She does not seem to be that type and if we meet I'm afraid she will be so disappointed it will be over immediately and honestly I would feel really bad. And I would feel bad even for her that she wasted time with me. Maybe I'm totaly wrong and she is not interested at all but if not. How to deal with that at best? She is very reasonable.