19 female redditor here. I know I am very young, and there’s still a lot of life left to live, but I have this fear that I will end up alone, and that I won’t date again.
In high school I never got asked to school dances, and no guys had ever shown interest in me. At the end of my senior year of high school, one guy from my school and I started dating, but things didn’t last long. No one at college has shown interest in me either, and I have this impending feeling I’ll be alone for a long time.
Some of my friendships with guys, and my relationship with my ex, ended bc they would always ditch me to go hang out with their guy friends. I’m not saying ditching friends is right, but obviously if it’s happened to me continuously there is most likely a problem with me vs them.
I’m asking for advice about anything I can do About this (maybe advice about working on myself I guess)? I have hobbies, a full time job rn, and I spend time with friends, and go on hikes with them.
Attraction wise I’m not very pretty, but I stay in shape, and there are other things besides just looks? I have always had a great group of friends in my different stages of life, and I’m not clingy or dependent. I just don’t know what to do, bc it seems that when I show a guy my true personality, they always end up leaving or guys aren’t interested in me.
TLDR; what should I do so I don’t end up alone?
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