How to stop him from
cheating!
I always get a lot of complaints from my clients that their partners
may or may not be cheating on them. This is turning to be an issue that a lot of
women are being faced with, in particular because of the social media age where
access to someone new is just a few clicks away. So how do you ensure that at a
time like this when cheating is on the rise like never before, that your guy
stays faithful to you!
The answer is one that you may not expect. Men cheat when they start
losing attraction for their partner. Now im not talking about physical attraction,
unless you have drastically changed over the years this should not even
remotely be an issue. Even then if a man is in love with a woman, no matter
what she looks like he will not cheat on her or leave her. I am talking about
emotional and mental attraction. A guy who is mentally not attracted to you
anymore is a lot more likely to cheat. In order to combat this you must
increase his mental attraction towards you. How can you do this?
Mental attraction increases when problems and issues decrease. No more
nagging, complaining, yelling, crying, losing emotional control. No more chasing
or being there for him no matter what, trying your best to please him and
behaving insecure and needy, all of these behaviours are a MASSIVE no no for
men!
Instead you need to start working on your self-confidence, your happiness
outside of him, your emotional control and your ability to not worry when
things don’t always go the way you planned, eg. He said he would call and he didn’t,
so what! Instead of turning it into a massive issue you should be so busy with
your life you don’t even notice these things or mention them.
When you are happier, more independent and confident, you stand a much
better chance of being in a heappy and healthy relationship but also one where both
parties are not going to step out on the other.
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