There's this woman whom I've gone out a few times with; someone I really thought I had a real connection with. We've also been texting/calling each other for a few months. Unfortunately, she turned me down for a relationship when I outright told her how I've felt. I don't know why she did so, although in retrospect now I know that something significant happened with her family/work during that time. And plus the fact that we live in different continents, so she may not want to pursue a long distance after all. We ceased contact for a while after that.
Since the quarantine, we have started speaking with each other again, to the point that we'd now text each other daily and call almost every couple of days. During the last few weeks, I think we've got to know each other much better and that we're feeling much more comfortable around each other now, albeit the distance.
I've now made peace with the fact that with the distance and diverging life plans, nothing serious could have happened between us anyway, at least in the near future. However, curious if anyone here has experienced turning down someone (or being turned down) and later, for some reasons, got back together again. How would you know if that "second chance" exist and that you should take a shot at it?
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